Energy in a relationhip !

What is moving, it is living! The energy has to flow continuously!

Everything is in a motion. The Earth, the universe, the vegetation, we , even a little cell. There is a constant flowing.

But what does it mean flowing? It is bad? Absolutely not, this is the evolution, this means that we are growing. And not just in the materialistic way, but also in the spiritual and soul level. We are growing, evoluting. Is it a change? In some way yes, but it is a self-growing. The self is heading towards to the higher level of understanding.

What if everything will stop and we will say we arrived to the point that we know everything.

It is impossible. Even the universe will never stop. Will never reach the perfection. But really perfection is exiting? There is no perfection, because one day we think this is the perfect thing but next day we woke up and realize it is not, because there is something more we can reach, we can add.

And this is good.

Some planets were born and died out. Reached the perfection? NO, but understood that there is an other way they have to exist.

It is a constant change, constant rolling, constant fluctuating.

We cannot stop this process. We have to live with it and enjoy every moment of it!

What is tree stopped blooming in springs?

We need this change, we need this flowing of energy.

To reach the perfection is it so important? Is perfection is really existing?

It is our task how we are changing, how we are letting the energy to bring us toward growing.

It is like the relationship. We are dating then we think, we have the perfect mate in our life, so we decide to marry. Is it really the end? The perfection?

Absolutely not. It is a chance to grow, to flow together. It is wonder. We never have to stop. We never have to sit still and just wait for tomorrow.

We have to realize the energy around us. Focus into our inner self, is the first step to understand our needs, our fluctuation of energy. Then we look aside and understand the energy that is flowing in us, as a couple.

Yes, it is s different, but not so. It is just on the other level, that is similar to our pattern. Our aim is to realize the common pattern and let this energy exploding.

Sometimes it is difficult, I know, because if we think how many energy is effecting on us. The neighbour, the colleagues, the boss, the friends, the parents, the kids, the man sitting next to us on the bus …….

It is our task to select among them. Which is important and which is not.

Do we have to take care of the common energy in our relationship? Absolutely yes. The energy in constant but sometimes it can fade away. Sometimes too many things is effecting us and we do not realize what is really important to us. Which energy is bringing us towards, and which energy is just keeping us back from growing.

The growing is an enjoyment. Filling us with positive feelings. A relationship has to give us positive feeling, too.

How we have to understand our marital energy? To focus on us and focus on the other and find the matching. Is it easy? Sometimes not, but in general yes. Just we have to decide is it worthy or not. Is the relation is giving us enough positive vibes to grow the self and to grow the partnership, or not.

Taking care is not like taking care of a sick people. A relationship is not sick to be taken care. It is a chance, it is an opportunity for a higher and bigger growing.

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